Sunday, January 11, 2009

Fight! Fight!


There is nothing I hate more than fighting with my husband. OK, having a wood plane run up my shin might be the thing I hate the most. But fighting with hubby would come in second.

Don't you hate those disagreements where you end up wondering how you could possible love this thoughtless jerk who wouldn't apologize even to save his life, never listens, and can't even TRY to see things from your point of view? While at the same time he's questioning how in the world he ended up with such a psycho who has absolutely no consideration of his feelings? Then you resolve the issue and say your "I love yous" but you're still bleeding in your heart and still have that little niggling voice telling you it isn't REALLY resolved by a long shot?

I hate those fights.

13 comments:

Jay Simser said...

Darlin' I think this post was meant for you as much as it was for me. Hang in there. Love wins out in the end
http://baileysbuddy.blogspot.com/2009/01/sunday-wisdom_11.html

Missy said...

:(

Yeah. Those fights.

Have them too often.

michaelg said...

Yup. Those suck. However, being a submissive little lark without an ounce of fight or opinion in you, don't you just always let J win? Heh, heh, heh.

Little Sister said...

Sis:
Just had one of those. And I am now laughing at myself. And now I think I will go tell my schweetie that I am sorry and that I love him.

Edwardo said...

Just cut the toes out of his favorite socks, have a nice cold beer, and you'll feel much better tomorrow. :) Hang in there!!

FranIAm said...

Me too... me too.

Lisa said...

The only thing worse than those fights is silence. That can do us in and has.

Madame Leiderhosen said...

Aw. A little sabotage will make a world of difference. Or a two week vacation in CA. I'll make the guest bed up.

Jennifer and Sandi said...

Hate those kind!!! Keep the chin up okay!

- Jennifer

Cheesecake Maven said...

Okay, when I left my comment I did not realize I was signed in my "Edwardo's" account. But I'm sure you know who it was anyway! I hope today is a better day!

Mommy said...

Yuck. those fights bite.

Bubs said...

The only thing that works when those things spin outta control like that is to just apologize like crazy, even if you're not sure why you're apologizing. Not knowing why you're apologizing fits, because usually you don't know exactly how the fight got that bad either.

Julie said...

Thanks for sharing......

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